It is now 3 weeks since Michael Brown was murdered by Ferguson PD Officer Darren Wilson. Officer Darren Wilson still has not been arrested, charged, or even brought to prison or court for the murder of Michael Brown.
Anonymous said: This may sound weird, but how do you know she is THE one? I'm going to explain myself. I've been with this girl for 4 months (yes, I know,it's not enough time to be sure,I'm only 20,she's my first love,and all those clichés).I've been with other people but she is the first person I fall in love with. She makes my life one million times better we have talked about our long term future and spending the rest of my life with her would make the happiest girl in the world.How can I be sure this is it?
I don’t think you can accurately tell, in the present time, who is THE ONE and who isn’t. That is something that only time can tell, you know? I believe in knowing, right now, that that is the person you want to be with, that you want to build a future with, a life and a home and everything that comes with. And you know what? That takes a hell of a lot of work.
I think being ‘the one’ or not is a little bit irrelevant in the present. I think you need to find the person who makes you want to be better, to make the world better for, with whom you can plan a future. The person with whom you WANT to work, relationship-wise.
I know this is a bit of an unromantic view on it, but I do believe in it. And I think that if you’re with someone who does make your life better, who makes your world shine brighter, you should cherish them and do your best to keep them. Just don’t worry about labels — they don’t really matter, in the present time. And to be honest, the present time is the only time you should be living in. :)